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Grief

You feel the full, devastating weight of losing something or someone irreplaceable. Grief is love with nowhere to go. It comes in waves — sometimes you're fine, and then a song or a memory hits you like a truck. There's no timeline for it, and anyone who says otherwise doesn't get it.

What does grief feel like in your body?

  • Crushing heaviness in your chest
  • Waves of intense crying that come out of nowhere
  • Extreme fatigue and difficulty with basic tasks
  • Physical pain — grief can literally make your body ache

Common triggers

  • Losing a loved one, a pet, or a relationship
  • Major life transitions — graduation, moving, growing apart from friends
  • Anniversaries, holidays, or places connected to who or what you lost
  • Grieving the future you expected but won't have

Journaling prompts for when you feel grief

  1. What do you miss most about what or who you lost?
  2. What would you say to them if you had one more conversation?
  3. How has this grief changed you, and is there anything in that change you can honor?

Healthy ways to cope with grief

1. Let yourself grieve without a timeline — there's no 'should be over it by now'
2. Create a ritual to honor what you lost — a playlist, a letter, a special place
3. Find a grief community or therapist; you don't have to carry this alone

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