Another Word for Ashamed
21 ashamed synonyms, sorted from mild to intense.
Ashamed is the painful feeling that something is wrong with you, not just with what you did. If you are searching for another word for ashamed, notice whether the feeling is a flush of embarrassment or a deeper sense of being unworthy. Naming it clearly can loosen its grip, because shame grows in silence.
Synonyms for ashamed, by intensity
Mild 路 A little, in the background
- embarrassed
- Uncomfortable about being seen in an awkward moment.
- sheepish
- Mildly embarrassed with a guilty grin.
- awkward
- Unsure how to act after a slip.
- red-faced
- Shame you feel as heat in your cheeks.
- self-conscious
- Hyper-aware of how others see you.
- abashed
- Briefly embarrassed and a little humbled.
- cringey
- Slang for squirming at your own behavior.
Moderate 路 Clearly there, hard to ignore
- humiliated
- Shamed in front of others.
- disgraced
- Your reputation has taken a hit.
- chagrined
- Annoyed at yourself for a failure.
- remorseful
- Shame paired with deep regret.
- exposed
- Something you hid is now visible.
- small
- Everyday word for feeling diminished.
- unworthy
- You doubt you deserve good things.
Intense 路 Strong, taking over
- mortified
- So embarrassed you wish you could disappear.
- degraded
- Your dignity feels stripped away.
- self-loathing
- Shame turned into dislike of yourself.
- worthless
- Shame that says you have no value.
- dishonored
- Shame tied to failing your values or community.
- wanting the ground to swallow you
- Everyday phrase for overwhelming shame.
- debased
- Feeling lowered in your own eyes.
Say it more precisely
I felt ashamed when I tripped on stage.
I was red-faced when I tripped on stage, but I laughed it off.
I am ashamed of my old posts.
My old posts are so cringey I want to delete them all.
I felt ashamed in front of my boss.
I felt humiliated when my boss corrected me in front of everyone.
I am ashamed of who I was then.
I feel small when I think about who I was back then.
Words people confuse with ashamed
- guilty: Guilt says 'I did a bad thing.' Shame says 'I am bad.'
- embarrassed: Embarrassment is often brief and shared. Shame is deeper and lonelier.
- insecure: Insecurity doubts your worth ahead of time. Shame follows a specific event or exposure.
- humble: Humility is a healthy view of yourself. Shame is a painful one.
Opposite of ashamed
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