Another Word for Hopeless

20 hopeless synonyms, sorted from mild to intense.

Hopeless can describe a bad week at work or a feeling that nothing will ever get better. Searching for another word for hopeless helps you see how far the feeling has spread and how long it has stayed. If the heavier words fit for more than a few days, it is worth telling someone you trust.

Synonyms for hopeless, by intensity

Mild 路 A little, in the background

discouraged
Your hope dipped after a setback.
doubtful
You are not sure things can improve.
pessimistic
You expect the worst outcome.
deflated
Your energy and hope have leaked out.
unmotivated
You cannot find a reason to keep trying.
gloomy
A dark outlook that colors everything.

Moderate 路 Clearly there, hard to ignore

defeated
You feel beaten by the situation.
resigned
You have accepted that things will not change.
disheartened
You lost heart after repeated disappointments.
demoralized
Your confidence and drive have been worn away.
beaten down
Informal: one hit after another has left you low.
fatalistic
You believe the outcome is fixed no matter what you do.
stuck
You cannot see any way out of where you are.

Intense 路 Strong, taking over

despairing
All hope feels gone.
despondent
Deep hopelessness that drains your will to act.
desperate
Hopeless enough to grab at anything that might help.
desolate
Empty and alone, with no comfort in sight.
crushed
Your hope has been completely flattened.
broken
You feel like something inside you gave way.
at rock bottom
Everyday phrase for the lowest point you can imagine.

Say it more precisely

I feel hopeless about finding a job.

I feel demoralized about finding a job after forty applications.

The situation seems hopeless.

I'm pessimistic about the situation, the numbers keep getting worse.

He sounded hopeless on the phone.

He sounded despondent on the phone and barely said a word.

I'm kind of hopeless about the relationship.

I'm resigned about the relationship, I've stopped expecting it to change.

I felt hopeless after the third rejection.

I felt defeated after the third rejection letter.

Words people confuse with hopeless

  • sad: Sadness can still hold hope for tomorrow. Hopelessness has lost that hope.
  • helpless: Helplessness is not being able to act. Hopelessness is believing nothing will change.
  • apathetic: Apathy is not caring. Hopelessness often cares deeply and expects the worst.

Opposite of hopeless

hopefuloptimisticencouragedconfidentexpectantheartenedbuoyant

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Why the exact word matters

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