Another Word for Despair
21 despair synonyms, sorted from mild to intense.
Despair is the loss of hope, and it can range from a bleak afternoon to a weight that will not lift for weeks. If you are looking for another word for despair, notice whether hope feels dimmed or gone entirely. The words below help you describe that difference, and if the heavier ones fit for a long time, that is worth sharing with someone you trust.
Synonyms for despair, by intensity
Mild 路 A little, in the background
- discouragement
- Setbacks have made you less sure it is worth trying.
- dejection
- Low spirits after a specific disappointment.
- gloom
- A dark mood that hangs over the day.
- the blues
- Casual phrase for a low, sad stretch.
- disheartenment
- Your enthusiasm was knocked out of you.
- pessimism
- You expect the worst, though you still function.
- a low
- Everyday word for a dip you hope will pass.
Moderate 路 Clearly there, hard to ignore
- hopelessness
- You cannot picture things improving.
- desolation
- Bleak loneliness, as if the world has gone quiet.
- misery
- Ongoing unhappiness that colors everything.
- defeat
- Despair after trying hard and losing.
- resignation
- You have stopped fighting because it feels pointless.
- melancholy
- A softer, lingering sadness with a reflective edge.
- heartsickness
- Despair tied to love or longing.
Intense 路 Strong, taking over
- anguish
- Sharp, consuming emotional pain.
- desperation
- Despair with urgency, willing to try anything.
- devastation
- Despair after a loss that flattened you.
- torment
- Suffering that will not let up.
- the depths
- Informal phrase for the lowest point you have reached.
- wretchedness
- Feeling utterly miserable and worn down.
- agony
- Pain so intense it is hard to think past it.
Say it more precisely
I am in despair about my job search.
Months of rejections have left me with real discouragement about my job search.
There is so much despair after the news.
There is a heavy gloom over everyone since the news.
I feel despair about the future.
I feel a kind of hopelessness when I think about the future.
His despair after the accident was awful.
His anguish after the accident was hard to witness.
Words people confuse with despair
- sadness: Sadness can still hold hope. Despair is defined by losing it.
- grief: Grief is mourning a loss. Despair is losing hope for what comes next.
- depression: Depression is a clinical condition. Despair is a feeling anyone can pass through.
- frustration: Frustration still pushes against the obstacle. Despair has stopped pushing.
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